How to keep my patience? Keep smiling to someone who is always angry with you. One moment full of love and the next moment full of anger.  More anger than love this whole year.  I do not know how to appease him.  As soon as I open my mouth I am told to shut up. I cry and he will say go and rub your tears on yourself. No pity at all . He thinks he is loosing too much in this relationship and I am gaining all. He thinks he will loose more if he leaves me. What shall I do? I want him to stay but I cannot live with an angry man. I cannot see him suffering all the time. He shall find his peace elsewhere if he cannot find here with me.